Wednesday, April 22, 2015

April 21 Kathmandu, Nepal

The suitcase wore out before I did, good sign! Blew a hole and broken wheels.





April 20 at 8:11pm · Kathmandu, Nepal

A few photos taken by a member of our group, Jamie Wake. Thought I'd share.












 
April 19  - Kathmandu, Nepal

Tuk tuk fun!


Made it to Nepal, surviving the hard ass landing, hitting the runway at 3 million miles an hour! Geez, what is it with these people driving/flying like they're shot out of cannons????
— at Tribhuvan International Airport.
 
I've been in India for almost two weeks now.  I've seen, smelled, heard, tasted and felt things I have never done before in my life.  I'm not sure what I expected when I came here but whatever it was, I have been completely blown out of the water by what I found.  I guess in the back of my mind I knew India was a Third World country but I did not realize how far down that road it was.  The filth, poverty and general distress of the people of India has been forever burned in my psych.

Filth:  the people of India live in such squalor and filth it just nauseates and they don't seem to notice  or be concerned.  There is no effort to clean their surroundings other than I see some shop owners  sweeping the area in front of their store fronts while the human and decaying food languishes nearby.  The stench is awful, it permeates my clothing and I continue to smell it after I'm back at my hotel.  I'm afraid to even breath the air.   I'm  pretty sure my shoes are ruined and I've had many people tell me that they threw away their shoes upon leaving India.  I understand why.

Animals co-exist here with the people, I mean REALLY co-exist.  They live together.  Cows are the predominant animal walking in the middle of the roads, laying in front of the shops, owning the town.      We were told there were 2 kinds of cows:  cows that produce milk and cows that do not.  If the cow is producing milk, someone owns it.  If the cow no longer produces milk, then it is of no value to anyone and owned by no one.  It is against the culture and law to slaughter a cow for meat, they are considered sacred animals, therefore, the cow produces milk, then ages, then dies......in the middle of the street, or store, or highway.  I've spent most of my time looking down to avoid stepping into a pile of cow poop!  Monkeys are scattered about, more in some areas, less in others.  The dogs.   My heart has been broken over and over.  The dogs of India are just pitiful.  They are everywhere and they just lay on the ground not moving.  Hundreds of people walk  around them and they don't move, they don't even open their eyes.  They are so under nourished, so lethargic, so sad.  When you do see them moving, they are limping and eating the rotten food trash.  Little puppies laying in the street, motionless.  These sights have been the most difficult for me.

Poverty:  beggars EVERYWHERE!!  You can not move without being assaulted by beggars.   Some are diseased, limbless, woman carry babies on their hips and beg for money telling me "baby hungry."  If you use a public bathroom it costs money.  If you take someone's picture they expect you to give them money.  We were told to ignore these people, to not make eye contact.  It goes against my norm to ignore this or to ignore someone talking to me.  "Rude" is the word that comes to mind along with sadness and pity.  Our tour guide told us that if we speak to them, even to say 'no' they  interpret that as 'yes' and hound  you even more.  I saw one gentleman give money to a young girl (about 8 or 9 years old)  and he was immediately swarmed by 10 other children begging him for money.  Lesson learned.  And what is shameful is these people are everywhere, including some of India's beautiful landmarks, such as the Taj Mahal.  Such a distraction at a place that should be the jewel of India.  After a while, it makes going out to see India such an  unpleasant event.

Bathrooms:  OMG!!!  Talk about some of the filthiest places in the world!  I now know where the word 'shit hole' came from and me with the bladder of a 3 year old.  I've had to consciously  restrict my intake of fluids just so I didn't have to experience a public bathroom, however, I've still had to use many.  Most  of the time there is no tissue but when it has been there, it's filthy.  The "attendant" will give you a small piece of  tissue to dry your hands and of course, you must pay for this privilege,  hahaha.

Culture and sights:  Over the top and this would be India's  draw.  India's rich history and culture is like no other.   Last night we went to the Ganges River and watch the Hindu death ceremonies which included the burning of their deceased and the public prayers.  When I first heard of the burning of the bodies, I was completely wigged out!   Who the hell would want to see dead bodies set on fire?  Now, after being there and being witness to it, I can tell you their rituals are beautiful and mind blowing.  What I have learned of the various religions in India has been so interesting and added  so much to the other stuff running around in my head.  When I walked through the entrance gates to the Taj Mahal, I stopped dead in my tracks.  The beauty and experience was overwhelming, very emotional.  I felt my eyes tear up.  The Taj is stunning.  The various temples and mosques we've seen are amazing. The artisty is unbelievable.   The carving  of the sandstone and marble is amazing.  The jewels inlaid in marble are gorgeous, intricate and delicate works of art.  We had the opportunity to watch current artists doing this and it's all done by hand  and takes  days, weeks and  months, depending on the intricacy of the pattern.  We visited a  shop where the Indian rugs were made  and watched the work.  Some rugs take up to 2 years to complete depending on the complexity  of the pattern.  When you see that it has been made by hand and not a machine and hear the price of the rug, you realize the creator of the rug is working for pennies an hour.  It  makes your stomach  turn.  Now I understand the "outsourcing" of India.

Speaking of 'outsourcing', here I am in the 'outsourching' capitol where all our phone calls go and you can't get wifi anywhere for free.  There are no 'hot spots,' only wifi for money.  Dumb me, I  figured India to be way ahead of us in this area but they are waaaay behind us!  And, if you're lucky enough to get access to wifi, it's not very strong.  You can  grow old just waiting for a page to open or a picture to upload!

I leave India tomorrow and head to Nepal, very excited about that.  I'm hoping for a very different experience.


April 17 at 9:19pm · Varanasi, India ·
Explored the temples of Khajuraho today, fascinating!!! Origin of kamasutra . The stone carvings were incredible, the temples are over 1,000 years old, pre-date the Taj Mahal. Incredible.







April 16 at 9:22pm · Khajuraho, India ·
I survived the Brush with Death today. I spent the day in an 3 hour Indian train ride, then a 7 hour bus ride with a driver hell bent to plow through India at 80 mph with a death wish to finally arrive in Khajuraho a total wreck. It took 3 drinks before I could even quit saying "Holy shit look out for the f'ing cow in the middle of the road!" Never so thankful to be at my hotel for the night......That's 7 miserable, near death hours. Today we took a 40 minute plane ride and were told the same trip would be 12 hours by bus! These roads are horrific, some are single lane with traffic going both directions so we're part on the pavement, part on the ditch, I kid you not. I wish I could describe it but the words escape me. India is an eye popping experience.
April 16 at 12:05am · Tajganj, India 
Taj Mahal today! When I came through the entrance gate and saw it for the first time, my eyes started to tear up. I couldn't believe I was seeing this magnificent wonder of the world. I had only seen it in pictures and now there I was, looking at it in front of me. Inlaid jewels in the tile, beautiful marble, stunning artwork and carvings in the marble, just overwhelming.









April 14 at 12:51pm · Tajganj, India ·
India is a total assault on my senses, chaos everywhere, extreme poverty, filth and death defying traffic. We've shared the road with cows, camels, dogs, goats, elephants, motor scooters and pedestrians. Apparently, size is everything here because our bus just plows right through anything and anybody on the road. I feel like I need a Valium each time I get off the bus.







Cow crossing on the major highway